I am often approached with questions regarding how someone is acting in a relationship. I also hear and observe stories about people who are generally unhappy, and some of them are heartbreaking.

I understand any life change is difficult, especially break ups. There are circumstances involved, perhaps children, apartments, maybe a pet, friendship with family members, it’s not just cut and dry.

Challenges in a relationship are normal – I often speak of the importance of commitment and how there are many out there who do not seem to value it in ways that allow for long term relationships to thrive. While I have, and would again – stand by a woman through any challenge or difficult set of circumstances life brings her/our way, I believe it is also important to note that this does not mean sacrificing your dignity or self respect in order to salvage a relationship that…