“When we go into our relationships seeking to change that individual, we are telling them that they are not enough for us just the way they are. Our words or actions communicate that these individuals we swear to love are not: good enough, kind enough, smart enough, beautiful enough, and etc. After awhile our significant others are knocked out of their throne of awesomeness, their empire of confidence and begin to question what makes them special and unique. “
Category: Matters of the Heart
Sojourning Into the Land of “Unfamiliar”
Today, I’m reminded of Abraham. God told him to leave his family’s house and all that he knew to go to a place that would be shown to him. It wasn’t like God said leave your family and move to Egypt or some other concrete place near the Mediterranean. No, God said leave all that you are familiar with to go to a place that I will eventually show you. If I was Abraham, I don’t know if I would have been able to leave everything and follow- but that is exactly what Abraham did. He left all that he was familiar with and He left to go to a place that he had no idea existed.
Cuffing Season
Hello old friends, new followers and fellow bloggers- So I was reading the Skimm, which is by the way is AMAZEBALLS… anyways, I was reading my daily dose of brief and concise news when I saw a line stating that it was cuffing season. I was like, “what the heck is that?” If you guys…
A Good Place
“I did not know what a good place was until I found myself in divine purpose. Yes, I deal with various giants and a slew of mountains but I’m a giant slayer and I tell my mountains to be removed. Whether in the valley or on top of the mountain, I am in a good place. “
LinkedIn Kills Confidence
“Let us not look at the talents we wish we had or pine away for the gifts that are not ours but instead do the best we can with what we have.” – B.J. Richardson
Peace Like A River
Then you will experience God’s peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus. Phil 4:7 NLT
The Choice
I made a choice to wait for you. I made a conscious decision to wait- and even though the insides of my heart aches I still made a choice. Do I have regrets? I say no as I’m visibly upset that you are not here . Have I made myself absolutely clear? Your presence or lack…
Ocean Blues
If I closed my eyes, I could smell the salt water….
Valentine’s Day
Today marks a day for love love without partiality and hypocrisy…. I’ve tasted of this love & I with all of my might – extend this love to you. One thing is surely true, nothing can separate us- our hearts sewn together as one. A great prize, we won each other. It’s a day when…
Create Boundaries
Hello old friends, new followers and fellow bloggers- You know? For a relationship blog, we don’t speak a lot relationships. So I thought that tonight’s post would be about dating relationships, courtship and etc. Do you know what was my biggest mistake in the majority of relationships I entertained? My biggest mistake was allowing everything…
Authentic Love: God, Relationships, and Life 