“I remember thinking that to desire thoughtfulness and intentionality in my love relationships was to desire too much. For the longest, I was in love-relationships that did the bare minimum. They did not exude any type of effort and was not willing to go the extra mile, yet they professed with confidence that they loved me. That my dears is not love. Love is thoughtful and intentional.”©Simone Holloway, 2020.
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For The Long Haul…
“I have decided that I am in this thing with the Lord forever. I’ve come to the place where I love things and people but I don’t love anything or anymore than the Lord. I love God more than my career. I love God more than the boy who has my heart. I love God more than my friends. I love God more than my family. I love God more and at any moment if he asks me to sacrifice it all, I am willing to walk away from it all. I don’t worship people and things, for the Lord alone is worthy of all my love, trust, and worship. “©Simone Holloway, 2020.
When Dreams Die…
Hello old friends, new followers, and fellow bloggers- Today is a somber day for many, myself included, as we reflect on life in the aftermath of the passing of Kobe Bryant and his beautiful daughter, Gianna. The world is in this state of shock and silence. Loved ones are holding each other a little closer…
There’s A Song for That…
“When was the last time you allowed yourself to just be in the moment? To be present with yourself, family and favorite playlist? When was the last time you welcomed joy? “©Simone Holloway, 2020
On The Run.
“So I have a confession to make: when I sense that I am falling in love with someone or that someone is falling for me, I run.”
I Don’t Owe You Anything!
Hello old friends, new followers, and fellow bloggers- Hello & Happy Thursday! Those who know me know that I am a big advocate for healthy boundaries and the cultivation of loving relationships upon the premise of choice. Like many of you, my schedule is very busy and this sometimes leaves me less available to those…
Pause.
“There’s a time for everything! There’s a time to begin and a time to end. There’s a time to be busy and a time to be more available. There’s a time to share wisdom and a time to be silent. There’s a time to move and a time to pause”There’s a time for everything! There’s a time to begin and a time to end. There’s a time to be busy and a time to be more available. There’s a time to share wisdom and a time to be silent. There’s a time to move and a time to pause”©Simone
Holloway, 2020.
Second Chances Are Not Guaranteed.
“Those who pursue do not bank on second chances, they take the first one. Here’s a snippet of wisdom for free: you would probably be in a relationship by now if you took a chance. Whether that relationship is good or bad is up to y’all the parties, but even conflict resolution and growth together comes from taking a shot at hard conversations. We want things without wanting to adjust for them.”©Simone Holloway, 2020.
Trust A Little More…
“Love is not fully experienced until we are brave enough to enter vulnerability. Love is about taking risks, trying things with no fear of mistake. Love was created to be both given and received fully and to do that we must trust.”©Simone Holloway, 2020
Growth or Excuses: You Can’t Have Both.
“Do you know what is the number one killer of growth? Excuses. Excuses kill growth.”©Simone Holloway, 2020.
