Holiday Anxiety

” I don’t know about you all, but I feel like we live in a world where we are always asked to supply answers to questions that we simply don’t have the answer to.  For example, “How long will you be single?”; “When are you going to have some kids?”; “Girl, why you ain’t got a boyfriend?; “Girl, when are you getting married?”  In my heart I want to scream, “I DON’T KNOW, DO I LOOK LIKE GOD?”  but on the outside, I smile gracefully and say, “I don’t know.  I’ll let you know when I find out.”  I’m not going to let them know… I’m going to make all my announcements after the fact on social media.  My family will find out about my life choices when the world finds out. Trifling?  Yeah, I know. “

I Refuse To Remember

“I don’t remember becoming this brave,
yet here I am. /Again, I realize that I made the right choice-/life changed the moment I chose me.” ©Simone Holloway, 2018

Here We Go Again

Hello old friends, new followers and fellow bloggers-  So I just sent off my application for Law school. I remember being anxious last year around the same time when I sent off my materials but this time, I am at peace.  It’s like my heart and my mind recognizes that this is it, I am…

Come Clean

If you tell on yourself, you don;t have to worry about someone telling on you…

A Time To Let Go

To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven- Ecclesiastes 3:1


I refuse to be in the same place stuck- I refuse to live a life of complacency, when God has destined for me to have more! I REFUSE TO BE STUCK

Whether You Come or Not

Today is the day I move forward in life, whether those around me move or not! Today is my day and it can also be yours 🙂

What is a True Friend?

Hello all,  It has been awhile since we’ve spoken.  I’m graduating from undergrad in 2 mos, so I’ve been busy  tying up loose ends concerning my future.  Tonight, as there is five more minutes in to the next day, I ask a question:  What is a friend? Can someone tell me?  What is true friendship?…

The Dangers of being Afraid

Hello friends! It has been awhile and I am making some big decisions this year.  I am trying to decide whether or not I should be with someone even though I know that the relationship will take work and an endless dose of mercy and compassion, not to him but to all of those who…