Hello old friends, new followers and fellow bloggers-
Today was an interesting day, full of new revelations and discoveries. So as I am now in the dating world, I have realized that the guys who are interested in me don’t seem to want to work for my heart. It’s like they assume its going to be given to them, just because I’m a girl, attractive, and single. Not so. It’s like they pursue, call every now and then , “hang” out and then get lazy and quit pursuing. I was taught that if you want something in life, you better work for it. If its worth a lot to you, then you go after it. If it holds value then you do whatever you need to do to make sure you have it in your hands…that’s why I’m so driven and ambitious because I pursue after what I want. I’ve come to recognize my worth so I don’t pursue after guys, I let them pursue after me. I don’t play hard to get, I am hard to get. I don’t tolerate crap and I don’t lower my standard for a good time- I rise above the occasion and do the work needed to achieve my goals. I go through the process.
I went through the process to finish college in three years. I went through the process to get a job as a paralegal. I went through the process to get into law school. I went through the process to be an ordained licensed minster at 21. I went through the process and I continually go through the process to be who I want to be; so why those who enter into my life don’t want to go through the process? Why should I give someone something without requiring anything of them? Shouldn’t the guy in my life have to work for my heart?
I think people look at me (esp. guys) and they are like she is so laid back , so easy to win, not a challenge but darling, I’m the biggest challenge of them all. I am not desperate or “thirsty” and my Bachelors Degree is not something I just printed off of the internet. I have a good head on my shoulders, I’m strikingly beautiful and my anointing speaks for itself so I don’t have to settle for someone who just wants to walk in and win me haphazardly, someone who doesn’t want to go through the process. If a man don’t work, he doesn’t eat…you have to work for what you want and that includes a person like me.
Until next time,
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